A representative figure of the theory of the subject-object relationship than the new spirit analysis, field. Based on the "containers" concept to describe the ideal psychological consultant. Explained: all visitors to accept emotions and feelings, can be on the consultants "containers" under the action of disposal and transformation, and finally get a good positive can accept emotions, so as to achieve the effect of treatment.
"GeDeng" a heart, at that time. For the mother and daughter really worried-home dad is Shanghai on business, NianLia son the key. The door Just before come downstairs of the time, the daughter said he wants to in the community and the children had a good friend, also think I could take a long time, simply gave the key to the dark and charged if you go home and watch TV. Who knows, the girl is really key lost it!
Hurriedly comfort way: all right, softly and friends just momentarily. All right, look together. Then, three two will make wet hair literally set a bun, quickly took the children walked first night, call her, know that bunch of keys weren't looking for, but seek to come to unlock the company to get into the home, back to home to change the lock.
Want to stay within an organization. And, of course, will still insist on a belief. Normal society in a similar phenomenon, only use self defence "psychological not fully explain what people will be fooled. In fact, the more DuoRen temptation in natural phenomenon, sixth sense, channeling art, magic, and to the prophets, river's lake legerdemain... these are psychological illusion, or the unknown world who originally?
Is a good friend of am said. Even doubt, now back at the time of the entire process. If for myself, even with so many the psychology of the knowledge and dealing with anxiety
skill, and sure enough, in such a bad situation, can properly deal with the same as friends? Will the children to blurt out "how do not expect" do "ruthless scold and such attacks?
Both lost the key, smashed glass, actually. Still failed in the exam, I failed the terrible things such as university, don't need to beat and scold parents, events of the extra natural consequences itself, will be enough to constitute the most severe psychological to children severest condemnation"
New York university psychology professor Tim o add, [and the United States, tel aviv university dealing with anxiety
social psychology, associate professor, lieberman put forward "construction level theory" claim. Points out, in July 2010. Made a "psychological distance" such as want to buy the phone don't immediately pay, a few days before deciding, will make you more general thinking, seize such as "good" the call quality principal contradiction, and avoid such as "the bell is not nice, color or not see" details and perceptual interference, help me to make a more sensible choice.
The daughter of friends saw his dealing with anxiety
mother in order to lose the key thing was busy, believe that. Inner guilt and regret is enough she remember the lesson. At this time, if the parents just grabbed the child's mistakes, it and sometimes scolding only drowning Aesop's fables reprimanded squirrel "carelessly" and refused to pull a owl what's different?
