The first recruit treatment mental illness is key to talk
"Sometimes, see the psychological disease is not difficult, just two words-listen." Psychological experts said, "to have mental problems of people, not to be an expression comes out, so the things they are the things that will destroy show patients; if their own inner things can be shown, so these are shows that will save patients." So, to suggest that people, in the face of a YuYi, anxiety and other psychological problems, family friend should listen to their talk.
QianDingNing-worry that the teacher our thoughtlessness
Parents performance: the baby just in kindergarten, parents one hundred not trust, every time send to the kindergarten, baby repeatedly charged the teacher value, the baby to children eat what, when water, outdoor activities should pay attention to what... Face not give children the crying, parents and children, will guarantee to again and again early to meet the baby home, will bring a gift.
Subtext: few teachers face several children, can take care of ten like home so good? Will not accidentally let the baby hurt? If the teacher forget to remind the baby drink water, baby don't eat well, thirsty hungry?
The baby's response: into the park for some time, xiaoyu still is not willing in kindergarten, each mother to send him to a garden, and he followed took mama's clothes, and not willing to loosen. Every afternoon, mother to meet, he played very happy, not the teacher saying good-bye, can't wait to go.
Experts suggest: xiaoyu mother to the teacher not trust, so he just left right charged, xiaoyu account beside how to stop anxiety the feeling is the mother after being forced to get yourself to the kindergarten, the kindergarten teacher must not mom, so, xiaoyu also produced a distrust of teacher of emotions, and not willing to stay for a while in kindergarten. Xiaoyu mother need to show their love for kindergarten and trust, and children discuss kindergarten something interesting, they gradually eliminate the uneasiness of the children.
Accounting for toys-fear of children be wronged
Parents performance: yu yu (a pseudonym) in kindergartens for more than a month, mood gradually become the good. One day, my mother was kindergarten see yu yu because rob a toy car and another child quarrels, yu yu is pushing it. Mother beside love dearly desperately, later every time of this toy. Help children Every morning rush yu yu into the park will say: leave early, we can play to the toys.
Subtext: my children have never been this kind of injustice, kindergarten so many children, toys, children play, after all, if not, this much disappointed!!!!!
The second recruit improve mood change from the environments of the life
We know, state of mind is closely related to the environment and the environment, clean, people will make the mood. Usually cleaned the house and buy some warm small adorn article bring home, let a house into "beautiful home". Still can put the curtain, antependium, sheets are exchanged for new. Because the destiny of the atmosphere is very easy to lose hope, change the face of the home can make the person's spirit to look brand-new. Buy a few potted flower, because the growth of plants always bring hope and vitality.
