Generally speaking, if three years old, from children never left the mother or the family member, suddenly in kindergarten will feel fear, timid around how to stop anxiety strangers, and not willing to kindergarten. But, as long as parents insist to send, timely encouragement, plus the kindergarten itself colorful life attraction, general the child will not adapt to adapt to, by the by don't want to go to to want to.
But if a child go to the kindergarten has emotional, each time a crying and lasted a long time, it shows that children's self-consciousness development not fully, the age although arrived three years old, into the independent period, and self-consciousness development index is still in some of the three years following the level.
Is the phenomenon of children often and parents spoiling at ordinary times, the spoil. Therefore, parents in a year old children can walk alone, should let him after his playing. If a child is not dangerous, can let he independent activities, encourage him and other children, so that he becomes used to contact from their parents, the guardian for the future in kindergarten to build the foundation.
"You now do work well, at home there don't have any brothers or sisters?" ZhangLianZhong didn't come to the point, but and small peak LaoQi homely, "everyone is happy and not happy, I am a psychological consultant. If you are not happy, you can talk to me about it."
Gradually, xiao feng open reserve. "Recently, I think of the class to the supermarket to see beauty, in general to 10 at night to back. I always cannot help." Xiao feng low head, saying, ZhangLianZhong didn't dare to look at.
In children in kindergarten, parents can before conscious do some preparation. For example, often give children a bug, kindergarten how good, have what toys, the kindergarten teacher singing and dancing very good, etc, make the child in the thought to have a yearning: "kindergarten is a good place." Can the neighbor's kindergarten children, and tell us about the kindergarten, please, act the teachers teach children's songs, let the child have a "I also want to go to the kindergarten", "I want to sing songs such as" desire.
Look ahead to the kindergarten
Conditional parents with children, should be in the kindergarten around, see the kindergarten, all kinds of activities, see the children equipment under the lead of the teacher do game scene, let the child see the classroom desks and chairs, sleeping with the small little bed. These field "consider" can let the child to produce the interest to the kindergarten children familiar with kindergarten, like the kindergarten.